Dissociation

"Are ya looking at a stranger in the mirror? Recovery is your best revenge, kiddo.  I don't know what went down to yank a knot in your tail, but that beast is working on borrowed time. From here on out, you quit buyin' what it's sellin, ya hear me? Give that nasty a one-fingered salute from me and both the boys. You've got a family at yer back and that's a hell of'a lot bigger, badder and stronger than any monster yer hunting."

Infertility

"Chasin' after somethin' just outta reach is enough to run ya ragged. I hear ya, kid.  Findin' a way to get to that happy place ain't always a picnic, but it's worth fightin' for.  Listen here, you want kids? You keep after it. Don't listen to the hateful whispers of this monster.  That's no way to beat it.  Be smart.  Rest up, study up, and keep your defenses up. There's a whole family rootin' fer ya and I am, too."

Infant Loss

"My wife, Karen, called me a heartbreaker for not wantin' a house full of rugrats.  It's one of my worse memories.  And here ya are, you've managed to bring this beautiful gift into the world and now yer left holding nothing but memories. Don't matter if you're Dad or Mom - you're feelin' something nobody should ever have to feel. Don't mean it's hopeless, though.  Ain't nowhere to go but up. Get movin', kid."

*see Grief

*see Depression

Alcoholism

"I've seen the bottom of too many bottles to count, but that don't mean it's right.  My old man was a mean, drunk cuss and one of my biggest fears was turning out just like him. There's a crap ton of reasons to drink, but there's just as many to quit. Check out the arsenal, there's a stockpile of good tools.  If at first ya don't succeed, try again, ya idjit."